Monday, December 12, 2011

Relationship Problems?

      Do you feel like your relationship is going down hill? Are you caught in a love triangle with your two friends? Do you want to have a relationship with someone but your thinking about someone else? Well I have some helpful tips just for your relationship…Hunger Game style.
        We’re going to be talking about healthy and unhealthy relationships. If you need help with your relationship then read the following tips.
Relationship Tip #1: Getting What You Want.
        I a relationship you can’t always get what you want 100% of the time. This is not Burger King you can’t always have it your way. If you think your going to get what you want then you are setting up for an unhappy relationship. For example Katniss wanted to go to the feast, but Peeta told her no because he didn’t want her to get killed.
        What Katniss did is she put sleeping syrup in his food and tricked him. When she saw that Peeta was fully asleep she went to the feast. Now what Katniss did was very unhealthy for her relationship. But what she did was out of love which brings me to my next tip.
 Relationship Tip #2: Doing Things Out Of Love.
        When you do things out of love that means its coming from the heart. It means going out of the way, doing the extrem for your relationship because you love your partner. Going back to the situation with Katniss and Peeta. Katniss gave him the sleeping syrp becaus Peeta had blood posing going up his leg from the opening cut on his leg by Cato. If Katniss didn't go to the feast Peeta would die. What Katniss is she went through the extrem to get the shot for Peeta so he would not die. Now thats what you call love.

Relationship Tip #3: Conflict With You And Your Partner.

      Coming to your patner with an nasty attitude saying mean things to them or telling them to do what you say bacause u had a bad day. No that is not col at all, thats how some good relationships end because you of your partner has a bad attitude. take the time to sit down and talk about your problems or your day, and tell them why it was so bad thats how you save your relationship. Peeta and Katniss butt heads a lot and that is unhealthy for a relationship becaus you or your partner should be heard.
      Dont attack your partner because bad arguments lead into throwing things and braekinf lamps or vases that is really unhealthy. Attacking your partner is the worst thing that you can possibly do. And when your in the argument don't bring your partners past into it hen you really have some drama coming your way. Katniss attacks Peeta all the time but thats because he doesn't get a chance to explain his side of the story. Make sure you or your partner is heard before you start a huge fight with them.

     These helpful tips will hopfully help your relationship along the way. And if you have not found love yet well theirs someone out there waiting for the right person to spend the rest of their life with and that just might be you.

(Suzanne, Fremont. "Healthy Relationships." CMHC UT Counseling and Mental Health. 2011. Web. 08 Dec. 2011. )
(Saisan, Joanna, Melinda Smith, and Jeanne Segal. "Relationship Help: Tips for Building Romantic Relationships That Last." Expert, Ad-free Articles Help Empower You with Knowledge, Support & Hope. Nov. 2011. Web. 08 Dec. 2011.
(Woodford, Joyce. "Healthy Relationships." Kansas State University. 3 Feb. 2011. Web. 07 Dec. 2011. )

1 comment:

  1. Asia your project was good i liked how you gave tips and stuff keep up the good work (: